Doubt is to certainty as neurosis is to psychosis. The neurotic is in doubt and has fears about persons and things; the psychotic has convictions and makes claims about them. In short, the neurotic has problems, the psychotic has solutions. - Thomas Szasz
I think I would rather be psychotic.
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Thursday, December 31, 2009
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Absurd Atrocities
Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities. - Voltaire
And don't believe they wouldn't! History is full of examples.
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And don't believe they wouldn't! History is full of examples.
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Tuesday, December 29, 2009
The Right Size of Hammer
The best way to find the right tool for the job is to learn to be good at switching hammers. - Seth Godin
My dad used to say if a hammer didn't fix it then get a bigger hammer. I don't believe he was being literal.
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My dad used to say if a hammer didn't fix it then get a bigger hammer. I don't believe he was being literal.
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Monday, December 28, 2009
Offensive Duty
A sense of duty is useful in work, but offensive in personal relations. People wish to be liked, not be endured with patient resignation. - Bertrand Russell
In fact it tends to really piss people off!
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In fact it tends to really piss people off!
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Sunday, December 27, 2009
Troubled Mind
A mind troubled by doubt cannot focus on the course to victory. - Arthur Golden
Don't trouble your mind with doubt.
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Don't trouble your mind with doubt.
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Saturday, December 26, 2009
Make Room for Creative Thoughts
The problem is never how to get new, innovative thoughts into your mind, but how to get old ones out. Every mind is a building filled with archaic furniture. Clean out a corner of your mind and creativity will instantly fill it. - Dee Hock
A well functioning mind abhors a vacuum.
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A well functioning mind abhors a vacuum.
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Friday, December 25, 2009
Exchanging Gifts
What a pity human beings can't exchange problems. Everyone knows exactly how to solve the other fellow's. – Olin Miller
An interesting concept but would it be in the true sense of Christmas giving?
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An interesting concept but would it be in the true sense of Christmas giving?
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Thursday, December 24, 2009
True Gift Giving
True giving is when you find an individual or a family that is not able to give back to you. - Rev. Runney Patterson Sr.
This is what we have grown up with. This is the altruistic ideal stated succinctly. To give a gift to ones equal, and they to you, is only a trade - not true giving. Lord knows trade is sinful because it presupposes profit which is downright evil because it assumes selfishness. In order to practice true giving this season you need to find an individual or family which has nothing to give back to you. That leaves out your family or spouse - one would assume even though they may lack financial means they probably have other values to give in return. Your co-workers could probably benefit you in some way so scratch them off of your list. Business associates (customers, suppliers, etc.) are likewise eliminated. Your friends are off the list because since they are friends they may very well help you out if you needed them. The same could probably be said of your neighbors even if you don't know them - they are potential friends at a minimum. Your minister should be eliminated because he is indeed the one who freely gives you the moral imperative you are acting on. That brings into question the church - but we probably shouldn't go there; besides they are just the conduit to the really deserving, not the end itself (right?). Charities fall in the same category. Your dog and cat!.....no, they return love and obedience.
This is getting tough.....Let's see if we can define who would be a worthy recipient of our largess:
This individual must have nothing of value which they might relinquish in return for your gift.
This individual must have no ability to work since they might just mow your lawn as an act of appreciation for your gift.
This individual must have no sense of humor or story telling ability which might enhance your life.
This individual must have no exceptional knowledge which might be of value to you.
So far all I have been able to come up with is a low level government worker.....but I'll keep looking and let you know.
(Since you are probably of value I didn't get you a gift - trying to stay with the true sense of the season, you know.)
This is what we have grown up with. This is the altruistic ideal stated succinctly. To give a gift to ones equal, and they to you, is only a trade - not true giving. Lord knows trade is sinful because it presupposes profit which is downright evil because it assumes selfishness. In order to practice true giving this season you need to find an individual or family which has nothing to give back to you. That leaves out your family or spouse - one would assume even though they may lack financial means they probably have other values to give in return. Your co-workers could probably benefit you in some way so scratch them off of your list. Business associates (customers, suppliers, etc.) are likewise eliminated. Your friends are off the list because since they are friends they may very well help you out if you needed them. The same could probably be said of your neighbors even if you don't know them - they are potential friends at a minimum. Your minister should be eliminated because he is indeed the one who freely gives you the moral imperative you are acting on. That brings into question the church - but we probably shouldn't go there; besides they are just the conduit to the really deserving, not the end itself (right?). Charities fall in the same category. Your dog and cat!.....no, they return love and obedience.
This is getting tough.....Let's see if we can define who would be a worthy recipient of our largess:
This individual must have nothing of value which they might relinquish in return for your gift.
This individual must have no ability to work since they might just mow your lawn as an act of appreciation for your gift.
This individual must have no sense of humor or story telling ability which might enhance your life.
This individual must have no exceptional knowledge which might be of value to you.
So far all I have been able to come up with is a low level government worker.....but I'll keep looking and let you know.
(Since you are probably of value I didn't get you a gift - trying to stay with the true sense of the season, you know.)
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Know When to Hold 'em and When to Fold 'em
You must stick to your conviction, but be ready to abandon your assumptions. - Denis Waitley
Always check your premises.
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Always check your premises.
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Monday, December 21, 2009
Moral Distinctions
Punishment is now unfashionable... because it creates moral distinctions among men, which, to the democratic mind, are odious. We prefer a meaningless collective guilt to a meaningful individual responsibility. - Thomas Szasz
A society without moral distinctions is amoral at best; immoral at worst.
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A society without moral distinctions is amoral at best; immoral at worst.
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Sunday, December 20, 2009
Fool-ish
Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain - and most fools do. - Dale Carnegie
And most that criticize, condemn and complain are fools.
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And most that criticize, condemn and complain are fools.
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Saturday, December 19, 2009
Hurling Insults
A gentleman of Miss Manners's acquaintance was once subjected to a barrage of unwarranted insults. Outraged on his behalf, she asked why he did not trouble to defend himself. His reply (and please forgive the inelegance for the sake of vividness) was: "If someone is throwing up on you, you get out of the way. You do not stay around to examine what is coming up." There is nothing you can say to people who, whatever they may think, see fit to hurl crude insults at you. - Miss Manners
One can fight fire with fire and risk getting burned or you can deprive the fire of air.
Friday, December 18, 2009
Learn Like a Kid
Every act of conscious learning requires the willingness to suffer an injury to one's self-esteem. That is why young children, before they are aware of their own self-importance, learn so easily. - Thomas Szasz
There is a place for masochism after all!
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There is a place for masochism after all!
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Monday, December 14, 2009
Reflections
Remember that children, marriages, and flower gardens reflect the kind of care they get. - H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
And it is easy to tell which ones get the best care.
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And it is easy to tell which ones get the best care.
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Sunday, December 13, 2009
Augmented Post
There are many reasons to dance, but only one purpose. - Lyle
First some clarifications: I am referring to ballroom style of dancing where this is a man and a woman moving together in a coordinated manner. Also this statement is directed primarily to the gentleman.
People fail to differentiate between the reasons for attempting an endeavor and the purpose of the endeavor. They may very well be very different things and perhaps it is best if they are very different. Too often the reasons are all which exist and the purpose goes undefined. This may very well doom the project from the very start. In the dance example "reasons to dance" might include; you enjoy dancing; you want to meet a lady; you may want to get to know a lady better. On the other hand the "purpose" of the dance is to make the lady look good. To fail to define this purpose dooms the dance. The gentleman may show off, but few if any are impressed - especially the lady of the dance. On the other hand if the purpose is fulfilled the dance will be viewed by all to be a great success.
Before undertaking a project take a look at the reasons for attempting it but don't fail to define a purpose; then set out to fulfill that purpose.
First some clarifications: I am referring to ballroom style of dancing where this is a man and a woman moving together in a coordinated manner. Also this statement is directed primarily to the gentleman.
People fail to differentiate between the reasons for attempting an endeavor and the purpose of the endeavor. They may very well be very different things and perhaps it is best if they are very different. Too often the reasons are all which exist and the purpose goes undefined. This may very well doom the project from the very start. In the dance example "reasons to dance" might include; you enjoy dancing; you want to meet a lady; you may want to get to know a lady better. On the other hand the "purpose" of the dance is to make the lady look good. To fail to define this purpose dooms the dance. The gentleman may show off, but few if any are impressed - especially the lady of the dance. On the other hand if the purpose is fulfilled the dance will be viewed by all to be a great success.
Before undertaking a project take a look at the reasons for attempting it but don't fail to define a purpose; then set out to fulfill that purpose.
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Mind Your Own Improvement
Let the refining and improving of your own life keep you so busy that you have little time to criticize others. - H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
And remember: Criticizing others in no way improves your status.
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And remember: Criticizing others in no way improves your status.
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Friday, December 11, 2009
Serenity
Boredom is the feeling that everything is a waste of time; serenity, that nothing is. - Thomas Szasz
Where does enthusiasm fall in all this?
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Where does enthusiasm fall in all this?
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Thursday, December 10, 2009
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Getting Better
First you have to fail, then you can improve. - Seth Godin
You can't get better at something you have never done.
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You can't get better at something you have never done.
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Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Biting the Hand That Feeds You
The proverb warns that 'You should not bite the hand that feeds you.' But maybe you should, if it prevents you from feeding yourself.- Thomas Szasz
Who's hand might that be?
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Who's hand might that be?
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Monday, December 7, 2009
Rockin' The Boat
Men are afraid to rock the boat in which they hope to drift safely through life's currents, when, actually, the boat is stuck on a sandbar. They would be better off to rock the boat and try to shake it loose. - Thomas Szasz
If you are drifting you are not navigating.
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If you are drifting you are not navigating.
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Sunday, December 6, 2009
Never Become Obsolete
During my eighty-seven years I have witnessed a whole succession of technological revolutions. But none of them has done away with the need for character in the individual or the ability to think. - Bernard Baruch
And as long as the individual has these they will never be without a job.
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And as long as the individual has these they will never be without a job.
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Saturday, December 5, 2009
You Can't Buy Success
Anyone who wants to sell you overnight success or wealth is not interested in your success; they are interested in your money. - Bo Bennett
Buyer beware.
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Buyer beware.
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Friday, December 4, 2009
Escaping a Disagreeable Situation
To predict the behavior of ordinary people in advance, you only have to assume that they will always try to escape a disagreeable situation with the smallest possible expenditure of intelligence. - Friedrich Nietzsche
This explains why people refuse to use the "Help" button.
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This explains why people refuse to use the "Help" button.
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Thursday, December 3, 2009
Management of Great Qualities
It is not enough to have great qualities; We should also have the management of them. - Francois de La Rochefoucauld
Perhaps there should be a special university for celebrity stars and sports figures.......
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Perhaps there should be a special university for celebrity stars and sports figures.......
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Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Learn From Experience
Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so. - Douglas Adams
Example: History, if taught at all, is not taught well.
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Example: History, if taught at all, is not taught well.
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Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Two Educations
There are two educations. One should teach us how to make a living and the other how to live. - John Adams
Teachers are good for the former but parents are required for the latter.
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Teachers are good for the former but parents are required for the latter.
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Monday, November 30, 2009
Study and Observe
Saturday, November 28, 2009
The American Culture
A wise man looks upon men as he does on horses; all their caparisons of title, wealth, and place, he considers as harness. – Richard Cecil
Thank your forefathers for not harnessing you with title, wealth and place. You are free to seek your fortune and enjoy it with others being none the wiser.
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Thank your forefathers for not harnessing you with title, wealth and place. You are free to seek your fortune and enjoy it with others being none the wiser.
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Friday, November 27, 2009
Be Wiser Tomorrow
He that never changes his opinions, never corrects his mistakes, and will never be wiser on the morrow than he is today. – Tryon Edwards
Please show me the errors in my thinking - but show me those errors with reason and logic.
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Please show me the errors in my thinking - but show me those errors with reason and logic.
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Thursday, November 26, 2009
Not Grace; Thanks
Today we set aside time to thank those around us, and who have gone before us, for the luxuries we so easily take for granted. Thanks to the men who tamed fire and the wheel and those firemen and policemen who today keep them from returning to their wild state. Thanks to the men of the mind who envisioned how men could best live together in peace. To the Washingtons and Jeffersons and Franklins who risked their lives so we may be free to create and hold the elements of prosperity and pass them on to those who go after us. Thanks to those whose names we do not even know who have protected us from those who would do us harm. Thanks to all those whose shoulders we stand on; who form the pavement of the road from the primordial ooze to the stars.
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Progress is Natural
All progress is based upon a universal innate desire on the part of every organism to live beyond its income.
- Samuel Butler
Politicians understand this best.
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- Samuel Butler
Politicians understand this best.
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Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Know Your Directions
The great thing in this world is not so much where we are, but in what direction we are moving. - O. W. Holmes
That is where all the conflict comes from; which direction to go.
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That is where all the conflict comes from; which direction to go.
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Monday, November 23, 2009
Unseen Effort
Learning is not attained by chance, it must be sought for with ardor and attended to with diligence. - Abigail Adams
Not only is learning not attained by chance, it is not attained by birth. When you meet a very learned person stand in awe of the unseen effort involved.
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Not only is learning not attained by chance, it is not attained by birth. When you meet a very learned person stand in awe of the unseen effort involved.
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Sunday, November 22, 2009
Restricted Freedom
Absolute liberty is absence of restraint; responsibility is restraint; therefore, the ideally free individual is responsible to himself. - Henry B. Adams
Hate to see a man of letters make such a mistake. Absolute Liberty is absence of all governmental control. Freedom is seldom if ever absolute. I am free to run around to bars with loose women but I restrain that freedom because it is not right. Words do make a difference.
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Hate to see a man of letters make such a mistake. Absolute Liberty is absence of all governmental control. Freedom is seldom if ever absolute. I am free to run around to bars with loose women but I restrain that freedom because it is not right. Words do make a difference.
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Saturday, November 21, 2009
Criticism vs. Praise
Few people have the wisdom to prefer the criticism that would do them good, to the praise that deceives them. - Francois de La Rochefoucauld
Don't let others use this against you.
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Don't let others use this against you.
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Friday, November 20, 2009
No X, No Y
No pressure, no diamonds. - Thomas Carlyle
What a much better way than saying "No pain, no gain."
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What a much better way than saying "No pain, no gain."
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Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Graceful Wrinkles
When grace is joined with wrinkles, it is adorable. There is an unspeakable dawn in happy old age. - Victor Hugo
You will also find wisdom where grace is joined with wrinkles.
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You will also find wisdom where grace is joined with wrinkles.
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Monday, November 16, 2009
BIG Government
A government big enough to give you everything you want is a government big enough to take from you everything you have. - Gerald Ford.
If and when we get socialized medicine it will be big enough to take everything you have, even your life.
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If and when we get socialized medicine it will be big enough to take everything you have, even your life.
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Sunday, November 15, 2009
Augmented Post
Sometimes I have more to say.
I recently watched a "reality" series called The Colony. The setting was LA after a deadly virus had wiped out most of the population. The story was of 10 survivors who end up in a giant warehouse and scrap yard. Of course there are no utilities; no water; no electricity; no working sewers, etc. They are left on their own to survive however they can with what they've got. Occasionally they would be "attacked" by roving bands of bad-guys so security was one of their priorities. There first priority was water of course. Their only source was from the LA "river" which was pretty bad. They built a filter system and boiled the water to sterilize it. This worked well until they ran out of propane for boiling. In the meantime they had rigged up some solar cells which charged a bank of car batteries so they had plenty of electricity.One of the guys remembered that water could be sterilized with ozone so he built a Tesla coil to create a spark and then collected the ozone generated and bubbled it through the water. The only problem they had then was getting water from the river back to their warehouse without being attacked by the wandering gangs.
Occasionally, good people would come by looking for handouts. This caused dissension among the members of the colony. Some insisted that it was their moral responsibility to give these unfortunates water. Others thought that if you gave a few water, pretty soon you would be overwhelmed, and perhaps overrun, by the needy. Not one of the cast came up with the solution which is moral and will lead to peace - it has been used since the beginning of mankind*. It is trade. In a situation like the Colony one could say "Bring me 10 gallons of river water and I will trade you for one gallon of clean water." The needy can provide a valuable part - security for the Colony, in exchange for clean water. Water could be traded for food, or fuel, or weapons, or even protection from bad guys. There is no moral dilemma as long as both parties are agreeable to the trade. The traders are free to put whatever conditions they think are needed on the trade. They could say "If you steal the river water from someone then we will no longer trade with you." Much more effective than preaching!
Today, common thought about trade is somewhat convoluted. On the one hand it is considered somehow dirty. It is only dirty if it is not free trade. On the other hand it is somehow considered evil to put conditions on your trade. You must treat everybody equally - no matter how immoral they might be. I consider this to be evil because it is no longer free trade.
Free trade is the great peace keeper between people, tribes, cultures and nations.
* Perhaps the ability to trade defines mankind. A tiger will never offer you a trade - it will either kill you or let you go.
I recently watched a "reality" series called The Colony. The setting was LA after a deadly virus had wiped out most of the population. The story was of 10 survivors who end up in a giant warehouse and scrap yard. Of course there are no utilities; no water; no electricity; no working sewers, etc. They are left on their own to survive however they can with what they've got. Occasionally they would be "attacked" by roving bands of bad-guys so security was one of their priorities. There first priority was water of course. Their only source was from the LA "river" which was pretty bad. They built a filter system and boiled the water to sterilize it. This worked well until they ran out of propane for boiling. In the meantime they had rigged up some solar cells which charged a bank of car batteries so they had plenty of electricity.One of the guys remembered that water could be sterilized with ozone so he built a Tesla coil to create a spark and then collected the ozone generated and bubbled it through the water. The only problem they had then was getting water from the river back to their warehouse without being attacked by the wandering gangs.
Occasionally, good people would come by looking for handouts. This caused dissension among the members of the colony. Some insisted that it was their moral responsibility to give these unfortunates water. Others thought that if you gave a few water, pretty soon you would be overwhelmed, and perhaps overrun, by the needy. Not one of the cast came up with the solution which is moral and will lead to peace - it has been used since the beginning of mankind*. It is trade. In a situation like the Colony one could say "Bring me 10 gallons of river water and I will trade you for one gallon of clean water." The needy can provide a valuable part - security for the Colony, in exchange for clean water. Water could be traded for food, or fuel, or weapons, or even protection from bad guys. There is no moral dilemma as long as both parties are agreeable to the trade. The traders are free to put whatever conditions they think are needed on the trade. They could say "If you steal the river water from someone then we will no longer trade with you." Much more effective than preaching!
Today, common thought about trade is somewhat convoluted. On the one hand it is considered somehow dirty. It is only dirty if it is not free trade. On the other hand it is somehow considered evil to put conditions on your trade. You must treat everybody equally - no matter how immoral they might be. I consider this to be evil because it is no longer free trade.
Free trade is the great peace keeper between people, tribes, cultures and nations.
* Perhaps the ability to trade defines mankind. A tiger will never offer you a trade - it will either kill you or let you go.
Friday, November 13, 2009
Talented
Mediocrity knows nothing higher than itself, but talent instantly recognizes genius. - Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
Be sure one of your talents is to recognize mediocrity.
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Be sure one of your talents is to recognize mediocrity.
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Thursday, November 12, 2009
Beautiful and Thoughtful - Wow
The reason that the all-American boy prefers beauty to brains is that he can see better than he can think. - Farrah Fawcett
Need a better reason to teach your kids to think?
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Need a better reason to teach your kids to think?
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Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Go Where There Are No Signposts
There are no signposts in the sky to show a man has passed that way before. There are no channels marked. The flier breaks each second into new uncharted seas. - Anne Morrow Lindbergh
There is a difference between being a pilgrim and a pioneer.
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There is a difference between being a pilgrim and a pioneer.
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Monday, November 9, 2009
Concentrated Energy
Goals provide the energy source that powers our lives. One of the best ways we can get the most from the energy we have is to focus it. That is what goals can do for us; concentrate our energy. - Denis Waitley
Choose your goals wisely but choose them. You can always change them later.
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Choose your goals wisely but choose them. You can always change them later.
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Saturday, November 7, 2009
Hitting Your Mark
It is not enough to aim; you must hit. - Italian Proverb
Do not try to do good - do good.
Do not try to be honest - be honest.
Do not try to be a good spouse - be a good spouse.
Do not try to not rob banks - just don't rob banks!
- You are in charge of your actions.
Do not try to do good - do good.
Do not try to be honest - be honest.
Do not try to be a good spouse - be a good spouse.
Do not try to not rob banks - just don't rob banks!
- You are in charge of your actions.
Human Limitations
There is no limit to human beings ability to harness energy in nature for its' own purpose. What there is a limit to is what man can do when bound by the shackles of government. The limitation is not mans' mind it's mans' government not performing its' proper function. - Alex Epstein
There is no limit to what good man can do given liberty.
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There is no limit to what good man can do given liberty.
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Friday, November 6, 2009
Talking to Dolphins
It is of interest to note that while some dolphins are reported to have learned English -- up to fifty words used in correct context -- no human being has been reported to have learned dolphinese. - Carl Sagan
It just means Dolphins are not smart enough to teach. If anything, this tells us that in order to teach you need greater intelligence than to learn. Never let anyone convince you animals are better than humans.
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It just means Dolphins are not smart enough to teach. If anything, this tells us that in order to teach you need greater intelligence than to learn. Never let anyone convince you animals are better than humans.
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Thursday, October 22, 2009
Priority Management
Don't be a time manager, be a priority manager. Cut your major goals into bite-sized pieces. Each small priority or requirement on the way to ultimate goal become a mini goal in itself. - Denis Waitley
This is an excellent approach when managing employees.
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This is an excellent approach when managing employees.
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Tuesday, October 20, 2009
A Little Here; A Little There
A billion here, a billion there, and pretty soon you're talking about real money. - Everett Dirksen
Fast forward to the reign of Obama - just replace "billion" with "trillion" (that's only a thousand billion).
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Fast forward to the reign of Obama - just replace "billion" with "trillion" (that's only a thousand billion).
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Monday, October 19, 2009
What to Do?
Ask not what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive... then go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive. - Howard Thurman
What great advice for those seeking a career!
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What great advice for those seeking a career!
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Sunday, October 18, 2009
Security Now
The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what it was, nor forward to what it might be, but living in the present and accepting it as it is now. - Anne Morrow Lindbergh
Remember that both are responsible for making the relationship what it is now and that each has different needs.
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Remember that both are responsible for making the relationship what it is now and that each has different needs.
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Saturday, October 17, 2009
Passion or Pension?
Chase your passion, not your pension. - Denis Waitley
Don't ignore your pension either.
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Don't ignore your pension either.
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Friday, October 16, 2009
Rugged and Fragile Friendships
Men kick friendship around like a football, but it doesn't seem to crack. Women treat it like glass and it goes to pieces. - Anne Morrow Lindbergh
Think about this relative to male/female relationships. Obviously some tolerance is in order on both sides.
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Think about this relative to male/female relationships. Obviously some tolerance is in order on both sides.
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Thursday, October 15, 2009
Sometimes Thank-You is Not Enough
One can never pay in gratitude: one can only pay 'in kind' somewhere else in life. - Anne Morrow Lindbergh
That's why money was invented.
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That's why money was invented.
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Friday, September 25, 2009
Self Sacrafice Contradicts Capitalism
You cannot advocate the politics of self interest (which is what capitalism is) with the ethics of self sacrifice. - Craig Biddle
It is absolutely essential you understand what he is saying.
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It is absolutely essential you understand what he is saying.
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Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Start Your Do-It-Yourself Project Early
It takes half your life before you discover life is a do-it-yourself project. - Napoleon Hill
Educate your kids better than that.
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Educate your kids better than that.
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Tuesday, September 22, 2009
So You Want a Faster Horse......
If I'd have asked my customers what they wanted, they would have told me "A faster horse. - Henry Ford
Don't give your customers what they think they want, give them what you know they won't be able to live without.
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Don't give your customers what they think they want, give them what you know they won't be able to live without.
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Sunday, September 20, 2009
Play or Be Played
Avoid the crowd. Do your own thinking independently. Be the chess player, not the chess piece. - Ralph Charell
The chess player can fail or win. The chess piece can do neither.
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The chess player can fail or win. The chess piece can do neither.
(Other posts on Achievement)
Saturday, September 19, 2009
Your Plan
Reduce your plan to writing. The moment you complete this, you will have definitely given concrete form to the intangible desire. - Napoleon Hill
It is alway better to deal with concrete reality than the ethereal.
(Other posts on Business)
It is alway better to deal with concrete reality than the ethereal.
(Other posts on Business)
Friday, September 18, 2009
Saying What You Thought
Her virtue was that she said what she thought, her vice that what she thought didn't amount to much. - Peter Ustinov
If you are going to say what you think be sure you have thought about it.
(Other posts about Thinking)
If you are going to say what you think be sure you have thought about it.
(Other posts about Thinking)
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Practical Politics
The whole aim of practical politics is to keep the populace alarmed (and hence clamorous to be led to safety) by menacing it with an endless series of hobgoblins, all of them imaginary. - H. L. Mencken
Yup, that's practical politics. What we need is principled politics.
(Other posts on Government)
Yup, that's practical politics. What we need is principled politics.
(Other posts on Government)
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Coming Through!
The world has the habit of making room for the man whose actions show that he knows where he is going. - Napoleon Hill
Is that why the huckster's bluff is seldom called?
(Other posts on Achievement)
Is that why the huckster's bluff is seldom called?
(Other posts on Achievement)
Monday, September 14, 2009
Victory or Defeat
Victory is always possible for the person who refuses to stop fighting. - Napoleon Hill
Defeat requires submission.
Sunday, September 13, 2009
Honor
Honor is self-esteem made visible in action. - Ayn Rand
I ran across this quote the other day and it started me thinking. First to define Honor in dictionary terms:
If honor is self-esteem in action would you not assume that not acting honorably would damage your self-esteem? Note that I am using the word "self-esteem" in the "self-respect" sense not in the sense it is sometimes used where it refers to an unwarranted or undeserved self image. Isn't any damage done to your self-respect a slippery slope to personal disaster? Think about this the next time you decide to do something because it is the "practical" thing to do. Perhaps you should consider if it is the honorable thing to do.
I ran across this quote the other day and it started me thinking. First to define Honor in dictionary terms:
Dignity. Reputation. Dignified respect of character springing from probity (integrity, honesty), principle, or moral rectitude (moral uprightness).It seems to me we don't use the concept or the word much these days. When was the last time you heard a politician use the word about themselves or a colleague? If they did I think they would be judged as "impractical" or "naive." I myself have been told many times "Oh, come on be practical" when trying to argue a point on moral grounds. The implication is we cannot know what is moral or not so we judge whether to do something on its practicability. So let's see where that takes us if we assume Miss Rand is correct.
If honor is self-esteem in action would you not assume that not acting honorably would damage your self-esteem? Note that I am using the word "self-esteem" in the "self-respect" sense not in the sense it is sometimes used where it refers to an unwarranted or undeserved self image. Isn't any damage done to your self-respect a slippery slope to personal disaster? Think about this the next time you decide to do something because it is the "practical" thing to do. Perhaps you should consider if it is the honorable thing to do.
Saturday, September 12, 2009
New Ideas
How vain it is to sit down to write when you have not stood up to live. - Henry David Thoreau
Pretty, unless you are writing about new ideas. Poor ol' Henry wasn't much into new ideas.
(Other posts on Writing)
Pretty, unless you are writing about new ideas. Poor ol' Henry wasn't much into new ideas.
(Other posts on Writing)
Friday, September 11, 2009
Freedom's Importance
For what avail the plough or sail, or land or life, if freedom fail? - Ralph Waldo Emerson
Thank you, Ralph, for reminding us how important freedom is; we stand on the precipice of losing a bunch of it.
(Other posts on Freedom)
Thank you, Ralph, for reminding us how important freedom is; we stand on the precipice of losing a bunch of it.
(Other posts on Freedom)
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Zoom, Zoom
Cars are not for showing how far you've come, but for taking you where you want to go. - Allstate Commercial
Having a nice car (or fancy office) will not make you successful. Have them after you are.
(Other posts on Success)
Having a nice car (or fancy office) will not make you successful. Have them after you are.
(Other posts on Success)
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Keeping Cool
I would not waste my life in friction when it could be turned into momentum. - Frances Willard
Friction converts energy into heat.
(Other posts on Negativity)
Friction converts energy into heat.
(Other posts on Negativity)
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Say what?
If atheism is a religion then not collecting stamps is a hobby. - Amy Alkon
If healthcare is a right then not wanting healthcare is also a right. So much for Universal coverage.
(Check your premises)
(Other posts o Logic)
If healthcare is a right then not wanting healthcare is also a right. So much for Universal coverage.
(Check your premises)
(Other posts o Logic)
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Climb a Mountain or...?
Why do writers write? Because it isn't there. - Thomas Berger
The difference between creating and conquering.
The difference between creating and conquering.
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Successful Relationships
The formula for achieving a successful relationship is simple: you should treat all disasters as if they were trivialities but never treat a triviality as if it were a disaster. - Quentin Crisp
No matter what, remain calm.
(Other posts on Adversity)
No matter what, remain calm.
(Other posts on Adversity)
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Take a Walk
If you don't like the way someone is acting, understand you can't change his behavior, you can only change his circumstances. - Seth Godin
...or your circumstances. Look somewhere else and forget them.
(Other posts on Change)
...or your circumstances. Look somewhere else and forget them.
(Other posts on Change)
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Augmented Post
Sometimes I have more to say, even if I don't have a quote to bounce it off of.
There is a small (or perhaps minuscule) effort to characterize the current debate over the need for universal health care as the attempt to institute physician slavery. This is a rather unique way of putting it but I think it comes off wrong unless what is being said is understood from a very basic level. I'd like to provide that understanding.
First we need for you to understand that health care is not a right. If you understand then skip this part.
Is Health Care a Right?: No, it most definitely is not. Like food and shelter it is a necessity, but not a right. Please do not confuse the two. To adopt the position that these are rights would mean that some other individual would have to give up their individual rights in order to provide them. You have then violated their true rightful rights. If you declare food to be a right then you just trampled the farmer's rights to do as he (or she) sees fit with their crop. If you tell the farmer, you must provide these crops to the less fortunate then you have just made him (or her) a slave. You are telling them what they have to do at the point of a gun. Now this doesn't mean that the less fortunate individual is forced into starvation. They are welcome to get a job and pay the farmer for the food. They are welcome to start a business; make a profit; spend their profit to feed their family. They are welcome to go to any number of private charities which provide food (and counseling). They can go to family or friends for assistance. If they have no family or friends then they are welcome to change their ways. The alternative is to declare food as a right, or as in the the USA, an almost right, which will lead to the downside you see everywhere here; poverty leads to obesity.
So if health care isn't really a right but we treat it as such what happens? Anytime you declare something a right that isn't then what you are doing is violating someone else's rights (legitimate rights). If you make healthcare a right then you must demand from doctors service which they perhaps would not offer otherwise.Or, you may prevent a doctor from providing a service he normally would provide.
Making healthcare a right will also necessitate compensating all doctors the same for a given service. Does it make sense to pay the best the same as the worst? So much for rewarding excellence.
But, back to the term Physician Slavery. Slavery is a loss of Liberty. Liberty is being free of governmental restriction. Universal healthcare means loss of Liberty for doctors. The healthcare bills before Congress can all be described as Physician Slavery bills. Perhaps using this terminology will get the discussion back to where it belongs - to a discussion of morality and principles.
There is a small (or perhaps minuscule) effort to characterize the current debate over the need for universal health care as the attempt to institute physician slavery. This is a rather unique way of putting it but I think it comes off wrong unless what is being said is understood from a very basic level. I'd like to provide that understanding.
First we need for you to understand that health care is not a right. If you understand then skip this part.
Is Health Care a Right?: No, it most definitely is not. Like food and shelter it is a necessity, but not a right. Please do not confuse the two. To adopt the position that these are rights would mean that some other individual would have to give up their individual rights in order to provide them. You have then violated their true rightful rights. If you declare food to be a right then you just trampled the farmer's rights to do as he (or she) sees fit with their crop. If you tell the farmer, you must provide these crops to the less fortunate then you have just made him (or her) a slave. You are telling them what they have to do at the point of a gun. Now this doesn't mean that the less fortunate individual is forced into starvation. They are welcome to get a job and pay the farmer for the food. They are welcome to start a business; make a profit; spend their profit to feed their family. They are welcome to go to any number of private charities which provide food (and counseling). They can go to family or friends for assistance. If they have no family or friends then they are welcome to change their ways. The alternative is to declare food as a right, or as in the the USA, an almost right, which will lead to the downside you see everywhere here; poverty leads to obesity.
So if health care isn't really a right but we treat it as such what happens? Anytime you declare something a right that isn't then what you are doing is violating someone else's rights (legitimate rights). If you make healthcare a right then you must demand from doctors service which they perhaps would not offer otherwise.Or, you may prevent a doctor from providing a service he normally would provide.
Making healthcare a right will also necessitate compensating all doctors the same for a given service. Does it make sense to pay the best the same as the worst? So much for rewarding excellence.
But, back to the term Physician Slavery. Slavery is a loss of Liberty. Liberty is being free of governmental restriction. Universal healthcare means loss of Liberty for doctors. The healthcare bills before Congress can all be described as Physician Slavery bills. Perhaps using this terminology will get the discussion back to where it belongs - to a discussion of morality and principles.
Saturday, August 29, 2009
The Bard Speaks the Truth
This above all: to thine own self be true; And it must follow, as the night the day; Thou canst not then be false to any man. - William Shakespeare
I've heard the first part a million times but never the last part. How come?
(Other posts on Honesty)
I've heard the first part a million times but never the last part. How come?
(Other posts on Honesty)
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Living in Generalities
We think in generalities, but we live in detail. - Alfred North Whitehead
Most of us live in detail - those that live in generalities are regarded as the artsy type.
(Other posts on Art)
Most of us live in detail - those that live in generalities are regarded as the artsy type.
(Other posts on Art)
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Pragmatism
Bragging you are a pragmatist is the same as bragging you are unprincipled. - Lyle
(Other posts on Morals)
(Other posts on Morals)
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Forest or Trees
Some folks can't see the forest for the trees. Other folks can't see the trees for the forest. - Lyle
They that can see the big picture as well as examine the minutia deserve to be the boss.
(Other posts on Management)
They that can see the big picture as well as examine the minutia deserve to be the boss.
(Other posts on Management)
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Irritating Aren't They
A fanatic is one who can't change his mind and won't change the subject. - Sir Winston Churchill
We've all seen 'em and been irritated by 'em.
(Other posts on Change)
We've all seen 'em and been irritated by 'em.
(Other posts on Change)
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Alliance With Evil
It is a power stronger than will. Could a stone escape from the laws of gravity? Impossible. Impossible, for evil to form an alliance with good. - Isidore Ducasse Lautreamont
Even the smallest part of evil is evil.
(Other posts on Morals)
Even the smallest part of evil is evil.
(Other posts on Morals)
Friday, July 17, 2009
Credulous About Credit?
A creditor is worse than a slave-owner; for the master owns only your person, but a creditor owns your dignity, and can command it. - Victor Hugo
Throw away your credit card. Save, then spend - spending to save doesn't make sense.
(Other posts on Money)
Throw away your credit card. Save, then spend - spending to save doesn't make sense.
(Other posts on Money)
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Beautiful Work
A belief in work ought to be a thing of beauty. - Malclom Gladwell (in his book Outliers)
This is not the normal time for me to do an expanded post but this simple quote struck me so hard I have to respond at length.
He says "belief in work", rather than simply saying "work" (with the implication that work is good). What he is saying is that the individual should see work as a thing of beauty and that the observer of those who work as creating and performing meaningful work are creating a thing of beauty. I had a physics professor in college who told me once "There are no lousy jobs, just lousy people who complain about their jobs." He understood. My father told me often "If you want a job that will last forever get a job as a janitor because people will always be dirty and will need to be cleaned up after." He said this without the slightest hint that Janitor was at all a demeaning job. He understood.
The work you do today may not reward you to your satisfaction. You may want a better paying job; a more rewarding job; but that does not mean the work you do today should not be admired. It may not be the job for you, but that has no relation to the value or beauty of the work the job entails. It should not, under any circumstances, cause you to not think of work as a thing of beauty.
This is not the normal time for me to do an expanded post but this simple quote struck me so hard I have to respond at length.
He says "belief in work", rather than simply saying "work" (with the implication that work is good). What he is saying is that the individual should see work as a thing of beauty and that the observer of those who work as creating and performing meaningful work are creating a thing of beauty. I had a physics professor in college who told me once "There are no lousy jobs, just lousy people who complain about their jobs." He understood. My father told me often "If you want a job that will last forever get a job as a janitor because people will always be dirty and will need to be cleaned up after." He said this without the slightest hint that Janitor was at all a demeaning job. He understood.
The work you do today may not reward you to your satisfaction. You may want a better paying job; a more rewarding job; but that does not mean the work you do today should not be admired. It may not be the job for you, but that has no relation to the value or beauty of the work the job entails. It should not, under any circumstances, cause you to not think of work as a thing of beauty.
Saturday, July 4, 2009
Opportunity and Danger
The optimist sees opportunity in every danger; the pessimist sees danger in every opportunity. - Winston Churchill
The well balanced weigh the opportunity and danger.
(Other posts on Opportunity)
The well balanced weigh the opportunity and danger.
(Other posts on Opportunity)
Friday, July 3, 2009
Height and Depth
The height of your accomplishments will equal the depth of your convictions. - William F. Scolavino
Seth Godin calls it getting through the dip.
(Other posts on Achievement)
Seth Godin calls it getting through the dip.
(Other posts on Achievement)
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Quest Quotient
Only the curious will learn and only the resolute overcome the obstacles to learning. The quest quotient has always excited me more than the intelligence quotient. - Eugene S. Wilson
Remember that when you go to hire someone.
(Other quotes on Management)
Remember that when you go to hire someone.
(Other quotes on Management)
Friday, June 26, 2009
Demanding Freedom
Freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed. - Martin Luther King, Jr.
Those who would take your freedom will never play Mr. Nice Guy.
(Other Posts on Freedom)
Those who would take your freedom will never play Mr. Nice Guy.
(Other Posts on Freedom)
Monday, June 22, 2009
Step Up to the Plate
A great deal of talent is lost to the world for want of a little courage. Every day sends to their graves obscure men whose timidity prevented them from making a first effort. - Sydney Smith
We need all of your talent - step up.
(Other posts on Talent)
We need all of your talent - step up.
(Other posts on Talent)
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Weigh Your Pack
Every horse thinks its own pack heaviest. - Thomas Fuller
Don't guess at the weight of your pack.
(Other posts on Adversity)
Don't guess at the weight of your pack.
(Other posts on Adversity)
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Scaredy Cats
Scalded cats fear even cold water. - Thomas Fuller
Don't count on folks ignoring your past mistakes.
(Other posts on Mistakes)
Don't count on folks ignoring your past mistakes.
(Other posts on Mistakes)
Friday, June 19, 2009
Time in One's Life
In theory one is aware that the earth revolves, but in practice one does not perceive it, the ground upon which one treads seems not to move, and one can live undisturbed. So it is with Time in one's life. - Marcel Proust
Living in the moment leaves no time for reflection or planning.
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Corrupt Means
The first sign of corruption in a society that is still alive is that the end justifies the means. - Georges Bernanos
Machiavellian thinking is lazy thinking.
(Other posts on Government)
Machiavellian thinking is lazy thinking.
(Other posts on Government)
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
Bad Alternatives
Having two bathrooms ruined the capacity to co-operate. - Margaret Mead
Create a situation where the alternative to good behavior is undesirable and people will choose the good.
(Other posts on Persuasion)
Create a situation where the alternative to good behavior is undesirable and people will choose the good.
(Other posts on Persuasion)
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Monday, June 15, 2009
Ideally Beautiful
The ideal and the beautiful are identical; the ideal corresponds to the idea, and beauty to form; hence idea and substance are cognate. - Victor Hugo
So it is with art.
(Other posts on Art)
So it is with art.
(Other posts on Art)
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