Security Now

The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what it was, nor forward to what it might be, but living in the present and accepting it as it is now. - Anne Morrow Lindbergh


Remember that both are responsible for making the relationship what it is now and that each has different needs.


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