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The Marriage Casserole
A good marriage is like a casserole, only those responsible for it really know what goes in it. – Anonymous

Remember this the next time someone tells you what makes a good marriage. You may want to add their advice as an ingredient to your casserole but it won't make the whole dish.

The recipe will need to change with time. Times change; people change; time of one's life causes change. Fiddle with the recipe rather than throw out the dish. Renouncing the change won't undo it.